Am I crazy?

Ok so am I insane or what?heres my problems:

I spend alot of time sad,and stessed and most of the time

im more worried about what my friends think of me then I

do anything else ..and theres this guy and all it seems I care

about is what he thinks,if he likes something then so do i ,if he thinks short hair is sexy then i cut mine or if red hair is then i dye mine,if he thinks i should do something then i do it,,im not even with him im just all trying to impress him and have been for years...i am so young i am 24 and i have my whole life ahead of me yet all i seem to do is spend my time worring about why my friends havent called,what they are doing and so on and so on..i hate it !! I want to be happy with myself and not feel the need that they are everything in this world to me..and to be honest they arent even great friends..uhhh im such a loser!! How do I get out of this rut and go to school,and get a job and do something better with my life ?? I worry waaaayyy to much about them!!

Am I crazy?

at least you know the problem. step 2 is doing something about it. if you live for others you will NEVER be happy. who cares what they think??? however, that is what you will say when you have built your own self confidence. start by focusing on what makes you happy, not what you think others would like to see you do to make you happy. write a list of 5 things that make you who you are. build on those.

Am I crazy?

i'm crazy too!

i do the same thing!

go to a doc. and maybe you can get some meds.

Am I crazy?

Talk woth your friends and family and get them to help you and not be against you by you not telling them , tell them every problem and try sort it out.

Am I crazy?

you are insecure, go see your doctor and ask for a referral to a psychaitrist

Am I crazy?

I think that you should see a psychiatrist or a therapist to help you with your problems,because they specialize in helping people that are just like you.And no,you are not crazy,although i think you may be suffering from depression.I hope you can find the help that you need and good luck : )

Am I crazy?

im crazy to

dont worry i do the same thing go to the doc and get med

Am I crazy?

you shouldnt let this boy take control of your life. If he likes you he likes you, if he doesnt he doesnt. It really doesnt matter if boys like you or not..... unless youre engaged or something. Focus on your friends more than trying to capture a guy's heart. I had this same problem and I found out my life was a lot easier now that I dont like him anymore.

Am I crazy?

April, you have some obstacles to get out of the way before you can manage school or a job. I think it would be a good idea if you got professional psychological help, someone to encourage you and help you figure out those obstacles and how to manage them better.

Am I crazy?

This sounds like an anxiety problem and possibly some problems with social skills and self esteem issues. You have two choices, see a therapist and/or a naturopath. Naturopaths do help deal with mental issues.

Getting involved in a family type church may help you as well.

Diane

Am I crazy?

you are extremely anxious and depressed. this situation may be a part of life or a temporarily depressive symptoms... but the certain subject, you have to admit a psychiatrist.. immediately.. if you accept his or her advices completely, i am sure that you will be very healty very soon, as mentally..

Am I crazy?

You're 24--it's about time you take those classes and/or get that job--and make new friends who share your interests. The ones you currently worry about hardly seem worth it--they are ruining your life, and the guy hardly seems worth your time.

Get the catalog for your local community college or adult learning center. Take classes that truly interest you--whether that be writing, art, something in the medical field, truck driving--whatever--just do it. Sign up--if funds are low, now is the time to be applying for financial aid.

For example: If you love animals--get a job at an animal rights group, an animal shelter, a pet store, a farm or ranch, etc., or take classes on raising/caring for animals...

Am I crazy?

First of all worry is the devil's advocate. We need to please God before we please anyone else. You are guilt ridden, forgive yourself forgive others who are making you angry in having to please everbody. Just pray that you will please God.

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maybe join a drama club to get more confident and hopefully you will se that people luv u and u hav a lot to offer