Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

Ok, I got really, really annoyed with my boyfriend, who I've been almost seeing a year. He kept suggesting to me to wear all black, sexy shoes, and my hair down. Well, me and my friend brainstormed, and found out that is what his ex-crush looked like, who said she wanted to be 'friends with benefits' but it was barely that. I do not know this girl personally, but my friend did. So I dressed up like her, complete with darkened hair, big sunglasses, and black clothing. I even borrowed a designer purse from another one of my friends. When he saw me, he started acting in awe, I know I looked good, but he acted like he was around her again, all anxious, and he told me how I looked like her. He went into shock, but later snapped out of it. He started asking me, "Do you still have feelings for me?" "I think I'm starting to love you," and all this other crazy stuff I know he said to this other girl! I don't know if he thinks I'm her now, or he's into that kind of look in a girl?

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

Your gut is telling you something very important. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE.

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

i think hes probably just into that kind of look in a girl.

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

Jen B

He sounds like he has strong feelings for his ex crush and he wants to meet girls that will look just like for her he can't be with the real deal you need to tell your guy that he is dating you and not his ex crush and to love you for you not because you look like someone he was once obessed with

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

I just love these complicated ridiculously-long, meandering, single-sentence questions that no one can possibly answer! How the hell can we offer any kind of reasonably good response when we have no idea about the situation?

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

Sorry but he sounds a little creepy

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

ask him about it, it sounds like he still does like her, but you should deffinitely ask him point blank, first reassure him that you won't be mad at him if he is...but you would just like to know...

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

Drop him.

He's not into you, he's into the other girl.

He didn't love you for who you were, he started loving you when you became someone else.

You should never change yourself for a man. It's ridiculous. You're so much better then that.

So, I would highly suggest you breakup with him. It's not fair to you that he still has feelings for his ex.

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

you shouldnt be with him because yes he is very much obsessed with his ex even though yall been together that long and it seems workable but its not really get out of there why you can.

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

find a new boy toy.....this one's crazyly obsessed with his ex.

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

He is obsessed with her and obviously doesn't like you

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

It could be both but save the drama. Sounds like both of you have not a clue of what you are looking for in a relationship.

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

Yes dump him

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

woah calm down!

why not confront him on this situation. unless your 99.9% - 100% sure then you can act. But until you are sure or confront him then dont jump to conclusions. He just might like that style.

good luck

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

i would be wary......be observant....if he's still into that ex-crush.....u might just be used...and that's not a nice feeling....at the end...

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

Don't be angry , just gone. He's still carrying the trorch for her, and will likely carry it for life, or deep into any marriage that is not to her.

You deserve better. or at least confront him with it. Demand he drop he ror yuo. Tell him you got a date with smiling Bob you won on a contess and ask if he thinks you should go.

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

Its just the look. For sure... I like girls with straight hair and my current g/f has very curly hair... I get more horny when her hair is straightened... but i love her no matter what her hair looks like. It just a physical appearance thing

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

u cant make someone love u so its better letting them go sometimes....u shouldnt be having to be compared to her....someone else will love u for who u really are

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

i think he's got some mentality problem...

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

he likes his ex 2 much! So go back 2 ur style and if he doesn't like it, then forget him! not tring 2 sound rude but he's way 2 obsessed!

Is my boyfriend obsessed with his ex-crush? I did an experiment?!?

What a wacky situation?! It sounds as though he has an odd fetish about black, sexy shoes, hair down... I suppose if you really like him, you'll want to please him.. but.. then again? Have you asked him straight out if he still has feelings for his ex? That might be the place to start and then you can sort out your relationship.. my instinct tells me that you need to find someone who loves you for YOU.