Is he using me?

I have become good friends with this guy.

I always thought he was cute and when he didn't have a girl friend i started flirting with him, I cut my hair off and he said i looked sexy on my myspace and told my friends.

he doesn't have a life out side of work so I've been trying to get him to go out. we talk on the phone for hours.

I feel like he is using me just to talk to because his other friends don't really talk to him. I want to step it up to someting more. but now that we are just friend he stop telling me I'm cute.

so now we are just freinds. I feel used because all he does is tell me how crapy his day is and other stuff while i just support him. its mostly him talking.

i don't think he has plans to asking me out. should i just move on and find another guy that is interested?

Is he using me?

You moved into that friends stage and well it seems to me that he only thinks of you as a friend, or he believes you two are only friends. So I believe he isn't using you but he is just thinking you as a friend.

Maybe you should talk to him about bringing your relationship to another level, or flirt with him a little more to let him know you are interested.

Is he using me?

You have to decide whether you want to be friends or be together but may have to sacrifice friendship.

You also can get another person to play into the roll but not an attractive female, get a male to ask him how he feels about you. someone you can trust to get the job done. Report It

Is he using me?

you should definitely move on if he isnt serious. Maybe he just wanted you as a friend. I dont consider that using you. If you are friends with him for a while, maybe one day it will turn into something else.