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Ok well there is this girl that I am really jealous of.Shes really skinny,really tanned,long blonde hair,bright blue eyes,tattoos.She is sexy looking.I like her because she is very nice to me but whenever she is around I feel very insecure.I normaly dont feel that insecure but when she is around I just feel like the ugly duckling.She always wears sexy revealing clothes that show off her nice figure.I feel like I dont compare.Guys will always look at her first when she is around.I feel like i am bad person because I dont want to hang around with her but its just that I feel very bad about myself and it stops me from having fun.Any ideas how to over come my jealousy.I want to look sexy like that but will I be concidered skanky?Please help!

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Just remember that there is someone out there thats perfect for you in every way and you will find them someday!! (unlike your friend who is going to be with a ton of wrong guys first!)

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Just try to be sure of yourself

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dont worry about it if she is nice then jsut talk 2 her b u

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Be strong girl. You're beautiful and words can't bring you down!

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im in exactly the same problem as you.

i just try to remember that no one is perfect, and that there is something about myself that SHE is jealous of.

we're all equal.

we all want different things out of life, just try to complete yours the way you want to. :]

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just try and be yourself wear clothes that are comfortable but also stylish and sexy

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Well it won't be a problem if you stopped seeing her. You also shouldn't look at her that way. She may look nice and all but I'll bet you've also got something she wishes she had.

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Skinny is not sexy and brunets look better then blondes. Don't worry about what she looks like. I bet there are a bunch of guys that think you are better looking then she is and more classy.

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lol....realize that every guy may glance at her first b/c she glamerous, but every guy has a differant type in mind. Many men will be way more attracted to you rather than her for the same reason. Be yourself, wear what you are comfy with and it doesn't hurt to be outgoing and funny ;)

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seriously, and not to be mean, but you should talk to a psychologist

As far as answers from a random stranger, I'd go with the girl who posted under me, not all guys go for that.

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I think you should be yourself. Think of all the positive attributes you have. You can go pick out cute outfits and dress cute in your own taste and style. Not every guy goes after the blonde hair blue eyes chick. Love yourself. Be confident. Don't let her intimidate you.

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She's considered skanky. Trust me. Don't try to be like her. Be yourself. You think guys are thinking "What a great girl!" when they see her? Nope.

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ok what u could do is try something new like haircut, new clothing, also try some fake eyelashes thoes work miracle u kno sho a liite cleavage u wont b skanky u just have self esteem

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Develop a "look" that personifies you. Don't try to imitate her. Let your own best attributes help you determine a way to show them off that is a bit different and special - just you.

Think about a style that best plays up your personality and looks. Don't look to the famous but look in the history books and greek and roman mythology. Develop who you are inside into a package that will grab attention for your unique edge.

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You should just be happy with yourself. The guys that go for the skanks are always jerks. So just think positive about yourself. The right guy will come for you!! Trust me!

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be strong. if you dress like her, you're not special. you're not being who you are, and i don't think guys like that. girls like you are too beautiful. and you're too beautiful to be dressing like that. that girl just want some attention.

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umm ditch her

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You don't consider her skanky right? Why would you be if you dressed like her? Start by making small changes so you become comfortable with the style. You have a lot to offer I'm sure, don't let jealousy take you over because that doesn't look good on anyone.

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Honestly, its natural to feel that way. Do continue to be yourself because sometimes, guy do not want the "skanky" looking girl, they'll want you! Also she might be pleasing to the eye and possible sexual but would they want to introduce you, the nice girl with morals or her, the "skanky" girl to their parents. So please continue to be yourself, because if you are comfortable with the way you are; nine times out of ten she probably is jealous of you too secretly.

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Ask her for style hair and makeup advise you two are friends she should be willing to help you feel comfortable in your own skin.

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You could try wearing revealing clothing that flatters your figure. Also, wear some good makeup and a lot of guys will look at you too! Be confident and know that there are plenty of guys who like brunettes better then blondes!

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ok well she probably uses a tanning bed to get so tan..so shell pay for it later when she has gross skin when shes older.

and shell probably regret having the tatoos when she gets older too.

and when she looks back at herself in a few years she probably wont like her self for being so skanky.

so it may seem like she has everything now but in a few years you'll be the one every1s jealous of.

and ya guys probably look at her first probably cus they can see down her shirt. and who wants a guy like that anyways??

and you have to think..do you have fun with her when yyall hang out?? when you hang out just try and focus on what youre doing and not the people around you..let go and go crazy..have fun and youll see that you you wont be paying attention to your looks anymore

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Here's a good quote:

Beauty captures attention; personality captures the heart.

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First love you and know you are beautiful inside and out. Never think you are unattractive. Apparently she does not love herself and she really don't think she is beautiful to herself. So to feel attractive she dresses that way so guys will tell her what she look like to them and talk about what they want do to her among each other. Dress in what ever makes you look like a respectful young lady, so you will be respected. If you dress skanky they will treat you like a skank.

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You're not jealous of her because of her looks, you're jealous of her because she has the courage to play a risky role that you won't, and probably wouldn't be completely comfortable in anyway.

You, my dear, have found someone who represents one of the roles you would like to play. If we can't get over the hurdle ourselves, then we find someone who has overcome their inhibitions and we hang around them to see how things are done to see if we'd like being them.

But there are risks in playing roles. Sometimes we can't go back to being mild-mannered Clark Kent. So we're afraid to play dress up and play a role we're interested in playing. And there are risks in overt sexualized exteriors or playing the role of someone who takes risks.

I think you should talk to her about this. Tell her you want to be her and see what she says. Maybe she wants to be you. Maybe she'll give you pointers on how to do it right.