Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

So my "best friend" a guy friend that I have known and talked to many times over the past year tells me that if I do not have sex with him tomorrow, he is going to tell a guy I like that I am a filthy whore and send him a letter which will destroy me. He says in order for him not to send the letter, I must dye my hair and look really sexy for him. He called me fat. i only weigh 110 pounds!! I don't want to lose my dream guy over this.....if he reads the letter he will believe it.....because he believes all the rumors said about me. Should I go to the police?

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

well.. of course you should call the cops.. he's a freaken sicko.. sorry to say.. and about the rumors.. and blackmail.. you can't stop them.. but you should talk to your "dream" guy and tell him what's going on.. he'll do something for you! =)

good luck!!

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

It is rape, call the police immediately, he could come after you, you know. So call the police and lock the doors

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

call the cops, its called rape smart one

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

Thats called rape and maybe even blackmail what hes trying to pull

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

if this guy likes you he wouldnt believe anything said.

but you need to talk to a higher person about that because thats wrong

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

yeah....that aint cool. he's blackmailimg you. and that is like rape.. just tell that guy that that guy is billshitting about tha whore **** and that hes just mad cuz he aint gettin laid by you

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

dude. that guys a frrreak. that's total harrasment. dont take that crap! and if he has any, go after his $$$ hahaha! =D be safe!

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

tell your parents and go to the police!!!

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

Yes!! That is actually blackmail and maybe libelous extortion and a felony. Tell your boyfriend what is going down. Involve the police..

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

Just tell the guy you like what your "friend" is planning on doing then find someone to kick your "friends" butt.

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

Yes. Yes. That's rape, bribery, and a whole lot of other illegal activities!

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

Tell the best friend to p*ss off and if your dream guy believes him then he's not worth it either. He should get to know you himself and not base his judgment about you on rumors.

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

Yes.

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

Sounds to me like this guy is an idiot. What he is doing amounts to blackmail and that is illegal. I advise you to get a pocket recorder and record his threats. Then when you get evidence of him threatening you play it for him. Tell him if he ever threatens you again or speaks to you that you will go to the police and bring him up on black mail charges. I doubt you actually could but at least he wont know and will hopefully leave you alone knowing he is being recorded.

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

He is not your best friend for friend don't make you do something you don't want to! Talk to the guy you like about what is going on ask him for some way to handle this. If he believes you he is a good friend if not then you did to look for someone new.

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

We are talking not only rape, but blackmail, which is also illegal.

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

that is sexual harassment and exploitation! ILLEGAL!

CALL THE COPS and don't worry sweetie, no guy worth having would believe sick rumors about you.

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

Stay true to yourself because whatever happens in life, you have to live with yourself!

Obviously your "best friend" is an ****** (trying to blackmail you for sex, falsly calls you fat, etc). There's a good chance your "friend" won't do anything, but if he does, you'll soon find out If your dream guy is worth your attention. Dream guy would hopefully take your word over mr. ******'s. If dream guy doesn't, I'd say he's not much of a dream guy after all.

Do you believe all the rumors about anybody really. I'd hope you wouldn't. It's almost as if the "best friend" wants to turn you into what he is threatening to accuse you of. Don't fall for it and stand up for yourself girl!

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

I'm sorry, but your "best friend" is a creep! I think you know that he is, since you put his title in " ".

Let's assume you don't do what he wants. Assume he tells your dream guy that garbage. AND assume the dream guy actually believes it. Even that scenario is a million times better than getting raped! You'd be crazy to delude yourself into thinking that McDreamy is worth the post-traumatic stress that would cause.

Call the cops. Your "best friend" needs to know some very clear boundaries.

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

You should tell your dream guy first, then tell your school counselor what this guy has threatened, and that you've told your dream guy. The counselor will likely call the guy's parents for a conference, and inform the parents that the guy's now on a watch list.

However. Your dream guy isn't your dream guy if he believes the rumors about you he hears. Sounds like you need a better class of boy friends.

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

SO?

GOOD THING YOU DO NOT HAVE MANY "BEST FRIENDS" LIKE HIM?

RAPE IS WHEN YOU DO NOT CONSENT TO THE ACT.(EVEN IF YOU CONSENT AND AT ANY TIME REFUSE AND SAY "NO MORE OR STOP" HE HAS TO STOP. IT IS YOUR WILL AND YOUR BODY. IF HE DOES NOT STOP, WOW RAPE.

HE HAS THREATENED TO EXPOSE YOU AS A FILTHY WHORE AND SENDING A LETTER TO A GUY YOU LIKE? (IF YOU DO THIS THIS IS WHAT YOU WILL BE?)

SET THIS SUCKER UP. CALL VICE AND EXPLAIN WHAT IS HAPPENING AND PUT A STING UP YOUR SO CALLED "BEST FRIENDS" RECTUM.

THIS IS THREATS, INTIMIDATION, SEXUAL FAVORS, HARASSMENT, HOSTILE ENVIRONMENT.

GET YOUR "BEST FRIEND" PUT OFF THE STREETS FOR A LONG TIME.

HEY WAKE UP LADY. YOU HAVE RIGHTS.

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

don't have sex with him. if u do he'll say it was consentional sex. tell ur dream guy what hes trying to do to u. if he don't believe u he's not ur dream guy or the right guy 4 u.id rather have rumors than have sex with someone i don't want to if it already happen don't shower go to the hospital the police will go there. u don't want the neighborhood knowing ur biz

Is it illegal for someone to force you to have sex?

WTF! That is like, verbal rape or something! You need to go to the police for sure. I'm pretty sure that slandering is illegal, and if not, at least you will have some leverage against him in court! And dying your hair is really bad for it, but calling you fat is terrible! You must go to the cops right now, otherwise, he may resort to physical rape, and I know you don't want that.